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These few sentences will over rule any thing that is coming ahead. I have dedicated my life and death to serve Allah SWT, it would certainly be filled with tough times. I need a sister who is ready to take on the challenge. A sister who is intelligent yet ready to submit in the relationship. Is brave enough to stand in the way of Allah SWT and give her 100%. who can encourage, re-track, dedicate and submit in the way of Allah SWT. I want to make this world a better place before I meet my end, a better place for all humanity, I need support.

What properties a practicing Muslim husband should have, he should be
• Pious (a man who loves and obeys Allah SWT and Prophet Muhammad SAW more than anyone or anything else, one who makes all decisions based on Quran-o-sunaa),
• Patience (with the trials attached with life, with growing children and so on…),
• Appreciative,
• Peaceful,
• Righteous,
• Fears Allah,
• Religious,
• Practicing muslim momin (good character),
• Content and satisfied with all nemats that are given to him
• Caring, loving,
• Fertile
• A man that would honor wife’s family
• Intelligent
• Ability to support a family
• Physically attractive.

May Allah SWT bless me with all good qualities and best of Ikhlaq. I am not so active on social media (their algorithms have serious defects regarding polarization maybe the side effects of marketing). Do have active lifestyle with cardio and weight training in addition to MMA. Am sensitive (suffered some life changing blows as a reason of being heart broken #familiesCanHurt).

Myers–Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI): INTJ (Introvert 19%, Intuitive 75%, Thinking 31% & Judging 47%)

Subjects / Topics that I am interested in:
Economics
International Relations
Psychology
Mass Communication
Environment
Urban Planning

I am a perfectionist which means that I don’t make compromises easily.
• I am an optimist.
• I am very caring.
• I am very logical.
• I am organized and like things to be organized around me.
• I try to be truthful, hate liars I cannot stand them.
• I am very helpful to others, cannot see anyone sad.
• I love cleanliness, cannot stand dirty people.
• I am very good at making people laugh, anywhere if my friends, family or colleagues are sitting quietly or serious, after I join them, all have a smile on their faces.
• I like to live simple and would prefer same for choice of spouse.
• I am possessive don't even look at what's not mine, and guard what belongs to me.
• I love to watch animated movies, and seldom hear music (sometimes due to concentration problems, used to like music from britney mj bsb etc, I used to hear a lots of music in my past but left it for sake of Allah SWT)
• All my friends say that I am a philosopher and should become a scientist. My teachers have always advised me to do PhD.
• Physique wise I am chubby. Love to do sports.
• I am basically from siraiki speaking family.
• I am into DAWA (we can do jobs properly but when it comes to Islamic duties we find excuses this kind of behavior is shameful; may Allah forgive me). I have been member and Ameer of multiple Islamic groups, most recently, I have been Ameer of Azan Institute in Multan. I am very compromising within the limits of Islam.
I cannot see anyone hungry, starving, shelter less, miserable, ... I will do eesar hope to find same quality in spouse.
I am kind of a revert to Islam. I stick to the basic and purest form of deen, my ideal umati is Hazrat Abu Bakar Sidique RA. I try to follow Quran-o-suna in the purest form and look at Sahaba RAA for guidance.
Please note I don't follow cultures and would not like someone who has more importance of culture compared to deen. Yes, culture does leave a very strong mark on personality, but I want my deen to have an impact on me. Similarly, I would like my spouse to think in the same way.

Every muslim lady should have following good characteristics,
• Pious (a lady who loves and obeys Allah and Prophet Muhammad SAW more than anyone else, one who makes all decisions based on Quran-o-sunaa),
• Patience (with the trials attached with life, patience with husbands mistakes and with growing children etc.),
• Appreciative (Prophet mentioned that women of naar would be non-appreciative),
• Peaceful (as momy Khatija RA had kept a peaceful life for Prophet Muhammad SAW),
• Righteous,
• Fears Allah,
• Religious,
• Practicing muslim momina
• Modesty, chastity (Prophet Muhammad SAW told that women from hell would be those who don’t have modesty, chastity and are indecent).
• Content and satisfied (by the had-dees of Ibrahim AS where he asked his son Ismail to change his door step)
• Caring, loving, fertile and obiedent (Prophet Muhammad SAW told that the women of jana are those who have following properties WADOOD (caring and loving), WALOOD (fertile, by looking into family if women of her family are fertile most probably she would also be), Aa-OOD (obedient lady,one who would please their husband when looked at)).
• A lady that would honor husbands family
• Prophet complemented the women of Quraish because they took good care of their children and pleased their husbands. So a good lady would take real good care of children and house of husband.
• Prophet Muhammad SAW was asked by Anas RA why you refrain from marrying lady from ansaar Prophet SAW replied that women of ansaar are very jealous. So a good lady does keep an eye on her husband forbids him from hraam at the same time she is not jealous.

Preferably not related to Lorena Bobbitt,
likes to remain healthy, likes to read books (I have my own gym & library), is intelligent, pushes in matter of deen, not afraid to learn new thing but eager to learn new things, loves cooking, loves to fully run her empire, can take jokes, preferably an introvert but has courage to step out of comfort zone, has courage to listen and process new things, doesn't follow culture but prefers deen. A consoling humble empathetic, sympathetic girlie girl who needs a ready made house to convert into home.

A person who has no old ties to keep up with wants to start a new life which is ready inShaAllah.
I don't encourage ladies working for the sake of earning, would only allow to work if it is to serve Allah SWT. A down to earth lady who has a nice smile on her face. Admires humor and is social.
I hate dowry and I am against dowry (ones who are not familiar with indo-Pak culture, here guardians of female have to give much just to marry their daughter e.g. house, car, furniture, electronics, blah blah blah) .
Every normal human being desires that their life partner is the most beautiful being in the whole universe, I am Alhamdulillah a normal human being, but I also know that the beauty within can overcome any flaws.
I like to be husband of a lady who selected and chose Islam as a way of life and dose understand the philosophy of this beautiful deen, the truth is that I am most of the time impressed by profiles of reverts and I am into reverts.
I am looking for a stranger (referring to speech named “stranger” by sheikh Khalid Yasin) to make her my princess, to take care and keep her safe, to be her desire and someone I am fond of.
A thing that keeps on coming to my mind is communication because I am OK with inter racial marriage. I admire diversity. Well two languages that I understand most easily are english and then urdu, afterwards siraiki then punjabi then arabic. So we have to have something in common.
If you or your relative have any problem with spending life and its important occasions (esp. Wedding) on 100% authentic sunnah, then maybe we don't have compatibility.
May Allah SWT bless all of us Muslims with the best, Allah huma Slle ala Muhammadin wa aala ale Muhammad SAW, ameen.